The Blur.

We all have dark moments in our life, times when we feel so low that you just want everything to end, everything to just stop. We get so stuck with this thought that we don’t look at what’s beyond! Beyond all the sadness and hurt. Why does this happen? Why do we feel this way? Why do we come to the conclusion that everything is going to stay blurred?

Life cannot be a fairy tale. Where there is good there has to be bad, you need to accept that. Things cannot go your way 24/7, you make mistakes, mistakes you wish you hadn’t done, but when you reflect on it, it all becomes clear, you’re glad you did it! How else would you know? How else would you learn and make yourself better! Nobody is perfect, nobody can be the perfect human, not even come close to it! Mistakes make a person better! Every mistake you make, you grow! Very often, you take your life for granted, the people who care about you for granted, the things you are blessed with for granted, the time given to you for granted. You are on a constant quest to chase things, things you wish you had. You don’t realize how precious the things you already have are,until you lose them. Every human being has to grow through different phases in life, it is the law! Nobody can skip a phase! And depression too is a part of life, one of the phases you have to get past to move forward. Without depression and hurt there can’t be a balance! Even if the only person you love is not speaking to you properly, realize  how many other people want to love you and talk to you. Realize the affection and care you’re missing when you decide to push them away. Forgive yourself for the mistakes you’ve made! Only then you’ll be able to believe, love,respect and be honest to yourself! And then you can respect and love others around you too! You can’t just say no, you can’t just give up sit in a corner and sob! Bring out that hidden potential, give everything a shot, everything you possibly can to make yourself intellectually and emotionally strong. Do not hesitate anymore! If somebody’s says you’re good at something, believe that! Give that particular hobby your time! You’ll never know what you could do with it! You cannot think otherwise. You cannot say, “No the person who says I’m good is just being nice” No! Always take things on a positive note and build on it! Be ready to accept criticism, ask the person why! Turn the negative ones to positive ones! Don’t sob! Don’t fall down! Rise back up even if you do! Think about all the people around you lending their hands to lift you back up! To help you stand! You can feel low, you can be depressed, it’s not wrong. You go wrong when you decide to stay low and depressed, when you put yourself down, when you’re not strong enough, when you give up on yourself and what you have! 

For the people who are depressed now; I know the present might seem all blurred and out of focus! You don’t know where you’re headed towards. Trust me, you won’t fall into a pit, you just learn to see better! And one more thing, Just because your foreground(present) is blurred doesn’t mean there is nothing beyond! Imagine yourself to be a diamond, you just can’t break.

LOOK BEYOND! YOU WILL FIND RAYS OF HOPE! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

I know you will! You are one of a kind. Nobody can be you! You are you, be you!.. 🙂